Saturday 10 November 2012

The Year is Over

It's hard to believe it's over a year already since I started My Year of Agile Living.

This whole time I've been living in Sydney, spending the weekend at Cosy Grove roughly once a fortnight to catch up with the kids. Dave has been living roughly half the time with me in Sydney and half the time with the kids in Canberra.

Me at Sculptures by the Sea
You'd think being separated for half the year would put some strain on our marriage, but it has actually been a renewal. The time we have had together in Sydney has felt like a honeymoon, just the two of us in the apartment, exploring Sydney's attractions and events.

The ThoughtWorks social club has been a terrific way to see Sydney, with outings to Cirque du Soleil and the Sydney Biennale on Cockatoo Island being amongst the most memorable.

I'll admit the year hasn't gone entirely according to plan. I haven't been able to cultivate the zen-like detachment from belongings and living space that I had hoped to. During the year I have accumulated far more than the original single suitcase and backpack worth of stuff in Sydney. But at least it's less than a truck-worth.

And I became so attached to the apartment in Wollstonecraft that I am still there after seven months. But I have tried four other dwellings.

I had to return to Canberra for a month to support my family during some difficult times, but I'm back in Sydney now and I'm loving it. I'd find it hard now to live anywhere else; though that won't stop me from giving it a try if adventure beckons.

Working for ThoughtWorks has been everything I hoped for and more. The people have been wonderful; so supportive and caring, and so very smart it's scary. I have learnt an amazing amount this year in this extraordinary company, put in a great deal of hard work, and had a huge amount of fun. I wouldn't have missed it for the world.

So what are my plans for the future? I'll definitely continue working for ThoughtWorks as long as I can. Our son is planning to move out of home next year, and our daughter may too. When that time comes we may have to change what we're doing, but until then we'll carry on as we are now.

If you want to continue the journey with me, visit my new blog, MAC's Musings.

5: Bristol on Sinclair

Arrival

I moved into "Bristol on Sinclair" on April 2, 2012. The building was
built as an extension to the Mater Hospital in
1929 in the art-deco style, and has a heritage listed facade.

View of the staircase from the loft

The apartment is a loft style apartment with a galley kitchen, a laundry-in-a-cupboard, and a small eating/sitting
area. There's a spiral staircase leading up to a loft with a queen bed, built in robes, and an ensuite bathroom.



Cost

$425 per week - a tad more than our budget but worth it!

First Impressions


It felt wonderful to be moving into a place of our own; a place with a secure parking space for our car and
a lift up to our door. And our own laundry facilities, including a dryer. Bliss!


It being a loft apartment, there's no bedroom door, so light and sound spill over from the lounge room to
the bedroom. There's no privacy when visitors are present, and they are forced to walk through the bedroom
to get to the bathroom. Also, there's a construction site next door, and the jackhammers start around 7am on
weekdays - but the noise is not usually too bad.


The first night I slept in the apartment was quite hot, and I left the windows open. Unfortunately a
mosquito found me, and I was awake half the night boxing my own ears trying to stop the whining.


The Neighbourhood

What I really love about this place is the neighbourhood. It seems like you can walk for a few minutes and get to anything you need. We're five minutes walk from the heart of Crows Nest with hundreds of restaurants, cafes and bars. 15 minutes takes you to North Sydney, where I was working from January until September - lovely to be able to walk to work after the hour journey I had from Allawah!

Wollstonecraft, St Leonard's and North Sydney train stations are all within walking distance, but the easiest way into the city is by bus. The buses run every few minutes straight down the Pacific Highway, with a stop less than a block from our building. They'll get you into town in 10 minutes if the traffic is light.

What will I miss?

This has been a wonderful place to live, and I'd recommend it to anyone. We have a wonderful view of the city
lights, and can just see the Harbour Bridge peeking above the trees. 


The area is fairly quiet, with some lovely walks down to the harbour. I've been pleasantly surprised by how green and leafy North Sydney is; I had always thought Canberra had the monopoly on green space in cities.

Departure

Despite my plans to try as much of Sydney as I could in my first year there, I fell in love with this place and have not been able to bring myself to move... yet...

Monday 2 April 2012

4: Allawah

Arrival

After six weeks of the luxury of living in the city apartments courtesy of ThoughtWorks, it was time for us to find our own accommodation. Our budget was limited because we had to pay rent in Sydney as well as paying for the mortgage on our house in Canberra and supporting our children. So I looked for some affordable shared accommodation. I advertised on Gumtree and Irene gave me a call. She and Paul are Chinese students sharing a three bedroom flat on Lancelot St in Allawah, near Hurstville. Irene offered us a bedroom with its own balcony and ensuite bathroom. Dave and I moved out to Allawah on December 10, the day of the ThoughtWorks Christmas party, which was ironically just down the road from our previous apartment on Elizabeth St.

Cost

$250 per week

First Impressions


Lancelot St is a beautiful tree-lined street running through the heart of Allawah directly from the train station. The brief walk from the station takes you past medium density housing blocks, some with lovely gardens. When it rains, the air is filled with the scent of citronella from the lemon-scented eucalypts lining the street.

Irene and Paul were very welcoming, treating us to some lovely home-cooked Chinese food. It felt a bit strange to be sharing accommodation again - as if I had reverted to student-hood myself - but Irene and Paul, though friendly, were very quiet and usually kept to their own rooms. It was almost like having the place to ourselves.



The bathroom needed a bit of TLC. The toilet leaked and the taps dripped incessantly even if you shut them off hard with both hands, until the plumber came and fixed them - a week before we left. The shower was the old fashioned kind with two taps, a non-water-saving shower head, and a raised lip you had to step over to get in and out. I found I much preferred it to the trendy showers we had in the city apartments, where it was impossible to avoid getting water all over the floor, and adjusting the flick mixer to the right pressure and temperature was a high art.



The previous tenants of our room had owned the TV and a lot of the furniture and equipment in the place, and had taken it with them when they left. As a result, the place was very sparsely furnished. We ended up buying some bits and pieces of furniture and some bedlinen. Dave bought a small TV set that could double as a computer monitor. The reception was terrible and the only channels we could get were SBS and 9 - and then only if you had the aerial in exactly the right spot for each one. It's a good thing I don't have much time for TV!

Then there were the morning wake-up calls. Every morning at around 5:30 two things happened. The guy who parked his truck outside our balcony started warming his engine, and the birds started calling. I love birds, but when you have magpies, currawongs, crows, lorikeets, grey butcherbirds, pigeons and  a baby noisy miner all clamouring to be the centre of attention, even the keenest twitcher would yearn for a scarecrow, if not a shotgun.

The Neighbourhood

Allawah is a small suburb near Hurstville on the Eastern and Illawarra train line, about 25 minutes south of the City. When Europeans arrived in the early 1800s the area was inhabited by Aborigines of the Eora tribe. The first European settlers were of British or Irish ancestry and there are still some houses on the back streets that are reminiscent of late 19th century Britain. During the 1960s there was a wave of immigration from southern Europe, especially Italians and Greeks. Today you can see their influence in the style of the balustrades on the medium density housing blocks that give the area a decidedly Southern European feel.

In the 1990s there was another wave of immigration, this time from China and Hong Kong. Now 42% of the local population is of Chinese ancestry. Hurstville is a Chinatown, the streets lined with great restaurants and fascinating Asian grocery stores, though lacking the traditional Chinese gateway you see in Chinatowns in the centre of cities like Sydney, Melbourne and San Francisco.

Lancelot St comes off Railway Parade, which has a few small shops, some takeaways and a rather nice Italian restaurant. The heart of Allawah would have to be the Allawah Hotel, which comes alive on a Friday and Saturday night, with concommitant rowdy drunks staggering home past our balcony late at night. They do make a pretty good counter meal though (the hotel, not the drunks, I mean!).

Paul, Irene, David and me at our farewell dinner

What Will I Miss?

The hardest thing to leave behind is always the people you've known and come to care for. Irene and Paul were ideal flatmates. They were very busy with their studies and spent most of their time at home studying quietly in their rooms (in distinct contrast to the Australian students I have lived with!) I think we all enjoyed learning about each others' cultures.

During our last week in Allawah David and I took Irene and Paul out for dinner at an Italian restaurant. They are not used to Western style dining, and we spent a very enjoyable evening talking about the differences between Western and Chinese eating.

Departure

In my last blog I expressed the fond wish that I would not have to move our stuff by myself the next time. Well as luck would have it, on moving day David was in Canberra. I had to pick up the keys for the new apartment on April 2nd, which was a Monday. The previous weekend I had spent at a very intense rehearsal retreat (did I mention that I'm a singer?). I returned exhausted, late on Sunday afternoon, and had to pack the car that evening so I could get across town and pick up the keys, park the car at the new place and get into work by a reasonable time in the morning. After rehearsal on the Tuesday night I stayed one last night in Allawah, and completed my packing and cleaned the bathroom and our bedroom before heading off to work on the Wednesday. By the end of the week I was a complete wreck. Luckily it was Easter, and I had a four day weekend to recover. Note to self: next time organise a day off work to move and don't try to do it all out of hours!

You may remember from my first blog that I had hoped to live Agile, with only a suitcase and a backpack to weigh me down. Well, the best laid plans... Thankfully Paul carried two heavy suitcases down the stairs for me. As well as the suitcases, there was a box of office equipment including a printer, the food from the fridge and cupboard, a bag of linen, and some small items of furniture and some household equipment we had bought. Oh, and Dave's TV. All in all, a carload and a half. As far as Agile Living goes I think we can call that an Epic Fail :-P.

At least we didn't need a truck!